Kallen Stadtfeld.
Last week my parents had their 40th anniversary together. From that point i keep thinking about that. They are great people and parents. I've never saw parents like that like ever in real life. Only in some good american movies. But i want to say something about being with someone for so goddamn long.
I guess that's a hard thing. And a good thing. They don't really love each other like they did when they were younger, but.. they do live together and share moments with each other. They just are like that and they have 2 kids. And 2 years ago i was devastated learning that they qute... well.. cheated on each other a few times back in time.. That's kind of cowpoo i wish i never learn about, or swear to never tell my kids about. But as time pass i think it's not quite what our little doings are in past, but what is the picture of a whole in the end. The picture is great. They do not fight like real bad fighting. Just quite normal little shouts here and there. Their chores are divided. They care about each other just like they care about me.
The question is: Why do i think about it, really? Certainly because i'm obsessed with one girl, but come on! I enjoy life as it is, but sometimes you just watch some movie where and old good man just quite makes that step to the girl (now woman) he once loved, but kinda let her go in the past and half of his life regretted that. He missed half of his life WITHOUT someone quite bright and good in his life. No, i don't know a penny's arse about Love, really. But after seeing my parents, i kinda think it's not all about that one-look-passion you get fed from action movies. And you can be quite content with it. Just with someone whom you care enough about. And don't miss obvious things you may miss. Like Sleeping!
That's just me thinking about happy marriage. Evolution, why do you make mating so freacking important.. I know, i know, don't start with that.
P.S. Oh, and, again, i find articles at Cracked quite good for learning some social stuff like that.. Yea, i totally trust a bunch of d-bags. But, hey! Things they say do make sense sometimes.
I guess that's a hard thing. And a good thing. They don't really love each other like they did when they were younger, but.. they do live together and share moments with each other. They just are like that and they have 2 kids. And 2 years ago i was devastated learning that they qute... well.. cheated on each other a few times back in time.. That's kind of cowpoo i wish i never learn about, or swear to never tell my kids about. But as time pass i think it's not quite what our little doings are in past, but what is the picture of a whole in the end. The picture is great. They do not fight like real bad fighting. Just quite normal little shouts here and there. Their chores are divided. They care about each other just like they care about me.
The question is: Why do i think about it, really? Certainly because i'm obsessed with one girl, but come on! I enjoy life as it is, but sometimes you just watch some movie where and old good man just quite makes that step to the girl (now woman) he once loved, but kinda let her go in the past and half of his life regretted that. He missed half of his life WITHOUT someone quite bright and good in his life. No, i don't know a penny's arse about Love, really. But after seeing my parents, i kinda think it's not all about that one-look-passion you get fed from action movies. And you can be quite content with it. Just with someone whom you care enough about. And don't miss obvious things you may miss. Like Sleeping!
That's just me thinking about happy marriage. Evolution, why do you make mating so freacking important.. I know, i know, don't start with that.
P.S. Oh, and, again, i find articles at Cracked quite good for learning some social stuff like that.. Yea, i totally trust a bunch of d-bags. But, hey! Things they say do make sense sometimes.